I love your writing and you are one of the main reasons I joined Medium.

These men love touting virginity. I come from a culture where women were often forced to stay virgins until marriage and have husbands complaining about how "boring" their wives are in bed, not realizing that these women were never allowed the privilege of exploring their sexuality.

These men want submissive beautiful young virgins because objectifying women is how they make themselves feel better about their shortcomings. They probably also think that every woman "hits a wall" by the time they are 30 and women are only valuable if they are "fuckable".

I agree with you that real relationships are much more complex and beautiful than this type of toxic thinking.

They also love to call men who respect women "Simps". These Simps are often in happy relationships and successful while they are spending all their time complaining about why virgins are not throwing themselves at them.